Reasons to Be Grateful for Being Born in Brazil

Despite the countless flaws this country presents, there is something that deserves recognition: the freedom conquered by women. This freedom did not arise spontaneously—it was the result of centuries of struggle, driven by movements such as feminism. Thanks to these battles, Brazilian women have gained space in the workforce, in education, in art, in culture, and above all, the right to make their own decisions.

Feminist empowerment movements have helped many women break toxic ties and free themselves from oppressive patterns. We still face high rates of male violence, and it is urgent that legislation, education, and social awareness evolve. Cases of violence against women are increasingly exposed on social media, revealing a harsh reality: many are still seen as objects, possessions, or domains. But as women occupy more space, they begin to disturb those who live in backwardness and dysfunction.

I myself was born into a family where, at 13, I was already considered a “young lady” and expected to learn how to cook and take care of the house. The environment was not healthy—surrounded by fights, shouting, and aggression. I grew up believing that marriage was an obligation, even if it was a failure, in the name of God or family.

But within me, there has always lived a revolutionary Jacilene. My Arab roots, with Muslim, Christian, and Jewish foundations, were planted only for good. I decided to study more, work more, and go beyond what I saw at home. That internal struggle helped me overcome adversity, conquer spaces, raise my voice when necessary, and use my force of nature.

Today, I am that Jacilene: artist, writer, belly dancer, polyglot, tourism specialist, therapist, philanthropist, scientist, project leader, event organizer, YouTuber, mentor, family constellator… I do not limit myself. I am unlimited, with infinite potential.

After facing situations between life and death, I chose to live 100%. I do not tolerate disrespect. I am intense in social relationships, I give myself fully, but if I sense betrayal or lack of respect, I simply walk away. I’ve learned that any sign of disrespect—whether from a friend, neighbor, stranger, or intimate partner—can lead to serious consequences.

From failure, my vitality was born. Enduring almost cost me my life, and it was at that limit that I understood how precious it is—not just mine, but everyone’s. Today I live in 100% life mode. If I am not met with love, I walk away.

Live. Do not let anyone stop you from living, from breathing, from feeling your heart beat, from believing in yourself, in the beauty of life, and in the beauty of God.

On June 24, 2024, all of this was denied to me. And even today, January 27, 2026, the Brazilian justice system—still mostly led by men, especially in Minas Gerais—remains negligent. Cases are archived, as if they expect women to grow tired so they can remain in power. Often, only when we are exposed and ridiculed does the police and justice system act—not out of conscience, but out of shame.

Still, there is something that strengthens us: we are in Brazil, and we can speak.

Written by Jacilene Arruda, Leo woman, free soul, representative of the New Age of Aquarius.